A group for those searching for a little romance, or more. Find the love of your life, or just have that brief holiday romance. It may help if you add more details to your profile such as your age bracket and gender.
This is a paid service. Members of the VIP Lounge receive priority response for assistance and includes a 24/7 help service if emergency assistance is needed while on holiday in Benidorm. To join please contact a member of admin
Travelling alone? Concerned that you may spend your entire Holiday alone? That is so unlikely in Benidorm. But join this group to meet like minded solo travellers looking for companions and friends for company.
Please Note we have a separate Group for those looking for friendship of a more intimate nature. Please do not join THIS group to "hit" on members.
PLEASE NOTE: THIS GROUP IS INTENDED TO BE BOTH INFORMATIVE AND FUN: IF YOU ARE UNABLE TO EXPRESS YOUR OPINIONS WITHOUT RESORTING TO INSULTS AND STRONG LANGUAGE THEN THIS GROUP IS NOT FOR YOU: PLEASE DO NOT JOIN
How it works:
We initially invite members to suggest topics that are often controversial in nature. Due to limited topics, these are not restricted to Benidorm, although we especially invite ideas that are Benidorm related on a regular basis. Subjects such as conspiracy theories can be great topics. We would prefer to stay away from subjects which other members hold close to their hearts or may feel uncomfortable discussing such as religion and similar topics. The topics discussed may also be purely for fun. (For example: If laughter is the best medicine. Is a comedian of more value to the world than a chemist)
Having agreed on a subject we put the subject to an initial vote to the Group to see if there is sufficient diversity of opinion before opening the topic for debate.
Debates then take place in one of three formats.
Format 1 The open forum.
This is when the votes suggest there is roughly an even split in opinions. In this case everyone is invited to join the discussion. We ask that all members join the discussion with an open mind. It is fun to try to convince others that your opinion is right. It is also fun to be prepared to concede to someone else's opinion when they argue a point you never thought of before. At the end of an pre agreed time span we have a closing vote and see if one side was able to sway the other.
Format 2 Head to Head
This form of debate takes place when the initial vote suggests there are only a small number of people with a strong opinion on the subject (we need a minimum of two opposing views). Most other members are undecided. In this case the members concerned partake in head to head discussions. (A bit like the presidential debates in America). Other members simply observe and wait to be convinced. Their role is primarily restricted to asking questions of the members in contest. The observers are in effect the Jury that will decide who is right and who is wrong. A closing poll will decide who won the debate.
Format 3 The Devils Advocate
This form of debate takes place when there is an opinion held held by a very small minority. Perhaps on occasions only one person. That person or persons is then challenged to play the Devils Advocate. The idea is to hold your own against an entire group opposed to your opinion. Note it can be great fun to attempt to play the Devils advocate even on a subject you do not actually believe in.
Everyone welcome, but remember, we will not tolerate inappropriate behaviour. You will be removed.
When Benidorm Seriously first started we were a small intimate group who became very close friends. Many of those members from the early days have expressed concern that those days seem to have gone. Here we bring them back. This group will have a limited number of members and we invite applications initially from those members who joined Benidorm Seriously prior to July of 2015